Every year I make a vow to myself to not overspend for the holidays. And I always break it. But this year, with the money struggles we have, plus the DS in college, I just could not let the holidays win this year.
So I stopped myself. So.Many.Times.
At the toy store, I asked myself "Self, do my grandkids really need any new toys, doll clothes or games?" and my answer? "NO"
At the clothing store, I asked myself "Self, does my DH really need several new ties or could just one or two work?" and my answer? "NO, just two"
And because we celebrate both Hanukkah and Christmas, I had to ask myself these questions over and over again.
"Don't spoil my DS, can he really use that in his dorm room?" "What does my Sister really want?" "Can I find it home made or done by a talented crafter?"
I found myself really enjoying this opportunity to find the best gift for everyone, plus the lesson for myself that less can be more. The gifts that I gave this year were based on listening to the person whom I was buying for, editing my "need" to overindulge, and trying to find the right place to purchase - be it a crafter, vendor show or regular store.
This year the holidays did not win - my budget did!
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